You’ve Built a Successful Life. Now Let’s Build a Relationship That Actually Works.
Work with The Relationship Detective to uncover patterns, gain clarity, and create real connection, without guessing or pretending.
Trusted by singles and couples for over 20 years
Who I Work With
Real connection looks different at every stage.
Singles
Get clear on who you are, what you want, and how to create meaningful connection without wasting time or repeating old patterns.
Dating with clarity, confidence, and intention.
Couples
Reconnect, communicate with care, restore intimacy, and rebuild trust even if things feel distant or stuck right now.
From coexisting to truly connecting.
Professionals
For high-functioning men and women who are successful in life but want their relationships to feel just as aligned and fulfilling.
Success shouldn’t come at the cost of connection.
“Everybody wins through good communication even when it seems impossible.”
— Bruce Graham
THE FOUNDER & CEO
Meet Bruce Graham
The Relationship Detective
I’m Bruce Graham—relationship coach, public speaker, best-selling author, and known to many as The Relationship Detective.
I help singles and couples uncover the patterns that keep them stuck, gain clarity about what truly matters, and create relationships that feel real, aligned, and sustainable.
My work is personal. I’ve been divorced twice, and I’ve experienced firsthand how disconnection and separation impact not just partners, but families and children as well. Those experiences didn’t harden me, they sharpened my commitment to helping people create relationships built on understanding, honesty, and care.
With a Master’s degree in Social Work, over 20 years of coaching experience, and certification through the Relationship Coaching Institute, I bring both professional training and lived experience into every conversation. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level advice. I help you see what’s actually happening beneath the surface so you can make choices that lead to lasting change.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or navigating a new chapter of life, my approach is simple: clarity over confusion, connection over performance, and progress that feels grounded and real.
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Are You Ready for the Relationship Of Your Dreams?
With Bruce’s Coaching, You’ll Learn How To:
Get crystal-clear on the partner who truly complements your life.
Break through the hidden patterns keeping love just out of reach.
Attract high-caliber, emotionally intelligent partners with ease.
Trust your instincts and stop second-guessing your every move.
Follow a dating strategy that feels energizing—not exhausting.
You’re not asking for too much. You’re asking for the right match.
From Private Detective To Relationship Coach
For 35+ years, as a detective Bruce helped people discover the truth in disputes and now he helps them uncover their authentic selves.
Today, he works with successful professionals over 40 who feels like love has passed them by.
His mission as a Relationship Coach, is to help singles find the love of their lives and couples live a life they love -- Together!
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